Thursday, September 15, 2005
Friends!!?? Im begining to lose faith in the meaning of FREINDS!!!
Hello guys!! Its me again...you must be wondering what the hell is happening. From my previous blog, i think you would know i feel strongly abt friendships and i believe that no matter what happens, friends will always be ard you to make sure you get through this difficult patch.Im not trying to say my good friends r doing this to me. But too much has happened within the group recently and i am starting to doubt the committment we once share among all of us. But im determine not to let this break up the entire group!! This grp of friends will grow old and die together.
Ohh well..you must be thinking what is happening. I think i wont use this blog to address the problems we have. I feel we have to solve this internally and we must be fair to all parties involved. I wonder if you guys are reading this but i know that as true friends, we want the best for each other, we mean no harm towards one another and most importantly, we will get through this together. There will be abuses hurled at one another but DONT take it to heart. We will juz lay the cards on the table, have an open mind and try to understand what the other parties are trying to say.
The end result of laying the cards on the table is to solve all exsisting conflicts among all of us and put us back on the right track where we will depend on one another throughout our life and always be there for one another.
I will end this blog with this quote and i think this quote would perfectly suit the predicament we are in now."A true friend should have a fair-sized cemetery to bury his friends' mistakes, faults and wrongs."
Take care guys. God bless you. Love u always :)
Ohh well..you must be thinking what is happening. I think i wont use this blog to address the problems we have. I feel we have to solve this internally and we must be fair to all parties involved. I wonder if you guys are reading this but i know that as true friends, we want the best for each other, we mean no harm towards one another and most importantly, we will get through this together. There will be abuses hurled at one another but DONT take it to heart. We will juz lay the cards on the table, have an open mind and try to understand what the other parties are trying to say.
The end result of laying the cards on the table is to solve all exsisting conflicts among all of us and put us back on the right track where we will depend on one another throughout our life and always be there for one another.
I will end this blog with this quote and i think this quote would perfectly suit the predicament we are in now."A true friend should have a fair-sized cemetery to bury his friends' mistakes, faults and wrongs."
Take care guys. God bless you. Love u always :)
# posted by Derek Chua @ 9:26 PM 
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bro, we may be all busy but that doesnt mean we dont care. its just the routines of life get us all tied up. if possible, we'd like to meet weekly but monthly catch-up sessions are good too! we leave it for u to plan and decide beoz u're the most 'on'! take care! hugs.
Hey kids...May be thinking who i am...never mind abt that. Just know i'm older and here's the story.
Life- you will always be busy (and it's fucked up, but that's another story) You will always have something on your plate. Be it crappy work with a fucked up boss, a needy girlfriend, a bo chap boyfriend or vice versa. But get a grip. Don't use that as an excuse to not hang onto your friends.
This aint some cheap line from some friggin' high school reunion book. This is reality. You guys are gonna grow. You can either choose to grow together or you can choose to grow apart. And dont think for a second that you guys can pick up from where you left off, days, weeks, months, years from now. You're gonna wake up one day and find your friends are complete strangers.
The truth is no friendship is that strong. If marriages can break up, what makes you think your friendships are any more stronger?
Wake up and smell reality.
It aint gonna take one guy to hold the friendship together. You know the drill. Takes 2 hands to clap, 2 to dance, etc. So Alhnom, sorry hon, but while you care, you aint caring enough.
New friendships you make in your adulthood are different and cant compare with friendships you started when you were kids. The fact that you guys grew up together, why the hell arent you facing life together? Dont fucking throw it away just cuz you're 'adults' and are tied up by routines of life...It's BS. You're eventually grow older and realize these routines are worth getting tied up over but by then, it will be (say it with me now) TOO LATE.
So get off your arses now and make that effort.
Sure you can hold me down 50 years from now and make me eat my words cuz your friendships worked using your lousy method. But i aint holdin' my breath. Besides, you gotta find me first.
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Life- you will always be busy (and it's fucked up, but that's another story) You will always have something on your plate. Be it crappy work with a fucked up boss, a needy girlfriend, a bo chap boyfriend or vice versa. But get a grip. Don't use that as an excuse to not hang onto your friends.
This aint some cheap line from some friggin' high school reunion book. This is reality. You guys are gonna grow. You can either choose to grow together or you can choose to grow apart. And dont think for a second that you guys can pick up from where you left off, days, weeks, months, years from now. You're gonna wake up one day and find your friends are complete strangers.
The truth is no friendship is that strong. If marriages can break up, what makes you think your friendships are any more stronger?
Wake up and smell reality.
It aint gonna take one guy to hold the friendship together. You know the drill. Takes 2 hands to clap, 2 to dance, etc. So Alhnom, sorry hon, but while you care, you aint caring enough.
New friendships you make in your adulthood are different and cant compare with friendships you started when you were kids. The fact that you guys grew up together, why the hell arent you facing life together? Dont fucking throw it away just cuz you're 'adults' and are tied up by routines of life...It's BS. You're eventually grow older and realize these routines are worth getting tied up over but by then, it will be (say it with me now) TOO LATE.
So get off your arses now and make that effort.
Sure you can hold me down 50 years from now and make me eat my words cuz your friendships worked using your lousy method. But i aint holdin' my breath. Besides, you gotta find me first.
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